Clingy Friends

Whats the most important thing in your life? Friends, Family? Whichever it is both of these ar eth most important people in your life. They can help you through tough times and if you ever need someone there's always someone in the next room. Now you may of heard the term choose you friends carefully, now you may think that your friends are the perfect people but it's true you really do have to choose them carefully. There's three types of friend, Close Friend who you would talk to and trust the most, Friends who you may talk to sometimes and the Clingy friends. These are the people who you never wanted to become big friends with but somehow you've been nice to them but know one else will because people don't like them because they're clingy. These are the people who will go to your house every weekend, every day of the holidays but you just don't want to say no to them. This is a test in life that we have to learn, to say no. You don't have to make up excuses "oh i can't come out today i'm...gardening" or "oh sorry i'm going to work at the zoo". But somehow these people will believe anything! The sort of people who don't care about what others say, but will boss you around in your own house. Well you can't let these people do this. Say no. "No you can't come to my house" or "no i don't want to come out today". Now most likely these people will stand outside your house and just answer "oh". In this case you slowly shut the door to take that contact away. No plays a big part in our life, it's a test to see if were are our self and not being controlled. Now i'm not saying that you go out and whatever someone asks you say no, "no" is a test to help you and others see what you enjoy doing and what you would rather do. Don't worry the clingy friends will get the message in the end! So next time you have a clingy friend just making themself at home in your house, just say "sorry but i've got work to do your going to have to go now" and keep saying it, don't give in!